If you build it, they will come. This has been the driving philosophy behind the home we have created here on the wild coast of Maine. Here is its story!
Time Flies
I know I said in my last blog post that this week I would be sharing our mantel and living room dressed for late spring. Sadly, though, our chilly wet weather has left me totally uninspired to decorate the house for warmer days.
I also got sidetracked from the living room with a kitchen project that has been rather time consuming. Sometimes when I am in a decorating rut, a project is just what I need to get my creative juices flowing! I am excited to share the results with you later this month once I am done!
But I digress…
The main reason I changed the subject of today’s blog post is that I realized this week marks 5 years since we made the big move to Maine. And next week it will be 7 years since we bought our property here.
Wow, time flies!
I related some of the story of our home in my very first blog post Bold Journeys and Second Runs. Today I am sharing the details of how we embraced the philosophy “If you build it, they will come” and realized the dream of building a home here on the coast of Maine where family and friends can come to reconnect and relax.
This is the first of a two-part series. It will cover how we ended up here in Maine, our home search, the original property, and the guest cottage renovation.
The Dream
I fell in love with New England when I went to college in New Hampshire. After graduation, work brought me to the D.C. area. I stayed there for 34 years, working for the federal government, building a good life, and raising a family.
But I always dreamed of returning to New England. I longed for a life of quiet beauty, far away from the rat race.
Our family started vacationing on Nantucket each summer so that I could get my New England fix. And that is where the coast claimed my heart.
Then, two of our kids attended college in Maine, and I fell hard for the people, lifestyle, and natural beauty of the state.
Do you see where I am going with all this?
My dream was set: When I retired, I wanted to live in a house on the coast of Maine.
The Big First Step
We started looking at properties here in Maine in the fall of 2015. I had read in Maine lifestyle magazine Down East about a town in the MIdcoast area. I knew that I didn’t want to be in the southern part of the state, but I also didn’t want to be too far from Portland’s amenities. The Midcoast area seemed liked a good fit.
To be truthful, I had no grand plan when we started looking. I just knew that my heart was pulling me to Maine.
We eventually ended up looking at homes in a community neighboring the one I had originally read about, because, as our realtor put it, we could get waterfront property down the peninsula for the same price as waterview closer to the nearest town with shopping and restaurants.
In December of that year, I spent hours pouring over listings on Zillow.
By the time I flew back to look at more homes, I had a clear favorite: a property with two tiny seasonal cottages and a field on the rocky shoreline of a quiet cove opening out to the ocean.
You all know the ending to this part of the story. It was love at first sight when, on a mild January day, I stood in the field here and took in the views of harbor, shoreline, island, and ocean; bold rocks, jagged spruce, and soaring birds.
We closed on our slice of Maine heaven on May 12th, 2016. I flew up from Maryland for the day. I signed the papers, ordered three mattresses, went for a bike ride with a friend, and ate a lobster roll. Then I flew back home.
I had no idea at the time what a truly momentous day this was.
The Original Property
I always joke that we bought a view with two rundown cottages. I had eyes only for the ocean vista. Not even the dead mice in a Rube Golberg-type trap in the kitchen sink could deter me.
I had a vision in my head of what this property could one day be, but the reality at that time was very different.
The “Lower” Cottage
The “lower” cottage by the water was the larger, with two bedrooms (a queen and one that just fit a twin), an open living/dining/kitchen space, and a tiny bathroom with a shower barely big enough to turn around in. But there was a fireplace and big windows framing the view. It was simple and small. And after I worked my decorating magic, I would even have called it charming and cozy.
The “Upper” Cottage
The “upper” cottage by the road was in much rougher shape — downright dark and dingy. The walls were made out of a kind of thick cardboard and the shower was a strange plastic contraption with the water heater right next to it. The cottage was accessed by way of cement steps straight from the field. You entered into a small enclosed porch. There was only a small window looking down to the water.
I did stick a bed in there, but I would never have called it charming. Or cozy…
Settling In
As a seasonal getaway, the lower cottage was more than adequate. I settled in and made it home. The first two summers we had the property, I would make the crazy long drive from Maryland with Maddie and Cisco, sometimes just for a long weekend. But I always felt such a huge sense of release when I pulled into the driveway and saw our little cottage with the water sparkling behind it.
It was my happy place, and I was realizing that I wanted to spend more time here.
Maybe even all my time.
Guest Cottage Renovation
The main impediment to spending more time at our property here was the fact that the cottages were not winterized. There was one baseboard heating unit in the living room of the main cottage, but no insulation in either of them. You could actually see daylight around the brick of the fireplace!
The first season I stayed until the bitter end in the fall, one of the last of the summer people to close up and leave.
Before leaving, though, I had lined up our caretaker Scott, who is actually a skilled carpenter by profession, to do a complete renovation of the upper, now guest, cottage.
Scott began work in December. He took the building down to the studs, finding rotted posts and an enormous ant nest behind the cardboard walls.
The Plan
Together we designed a plan for the new cottage — opening everything up, vaulting the ceiling, and incorporating the enclosed porch into the main living space. A wall of five large windows on the water side now look out across the field straight down to the shoreline. There is a new entrance to the cottage from the driveway via a welcoming front porch. (The porch was preexisting, off the bedroom.) Classic natural cedar shingles have replaced the cheap plastic siding.
The layout includes a living space with seating (the sofa is a queen size pullout) and a dining table, a sleeping nook, a kitchenette complete with mini farm sink and under counter refrigerator, and a compact but luxurious bathroom. There is even a utility closet containing an on-demand water heater and a European style combo washer/dryer.
And yes, there is insulation and electric baseboard heating!
The cottage is now a bright and welcoming retreat for guests. I have decorated it in a casual coastal Maine style so that visiting family and friends really feel like they are on a getaway. It is wonderful for them to have their space!
I often get asked if we rent out the guest cottage. At this time we do not, but that is definitely something I could see doing in the future. I will let you know if we ever do!
The Next Step in My Dream
Even though we had added an addition and updates to our house in Maryland, the guest cottage renovation was a huge learning experience for me. I made all the design decisions and picked out all the finishes.
It turned out to be just a warm-up for the even bigger project to come.
Next week, I will be talking about the main house construction, the big move to Maine, and how we continue to live our dream here.
We built it. And family and friends come.
Thank you for joining me here today! I look forward to seeing you here again next week for Part II!
Be well, friends!
What an adventure. So great that your dreams came true. Hugs to you.
Thank you, Renae! We worked hard to make our dream a reality, but we are also so very blessed!
I love reading how people made their dreams come true. It sounds like you did this all on your own. Kudos to you!
I did a lot of it on my own, but I always had the support of my husband and kids! It has been a labor of love!
This is amazing! I’m so glad you are sharing the story of how all of this came about!
Hi Susan! Thanks so much for reading my post! It has been a long journey!
Love your story and looking forward to “the rest of the story” as Paul Harvey would say. I love seeing a before and after, and a vision brought to fruition. I’ve always heard you’ll know it’s the right place/property when you see it. It will just speak to you. I know this is what you felt that day standing in the field. When you know you know. You’ve definitely created a longing to visit your state with all it’s rugged beauty and charm. I’ve always said you should get a commission from the Dept. of Tourism. You’ve brought Maine into thousands of lives that otherwise only knew it as the place the Bush family spent summers. At least for me that was all I knew. Can’t wait until next Saturday!
Thank you, Julie! Your kind and thoughtful comments always brighten my day! This spot definitely latched itself onto my heart!
This is so nice to read as always! Love hearing the story of how you found your property and the before and after pictures of the cottages. Scott and you really did an amazing job on the upper cottage. It is just a wonderful get away place. The wall of windows looking over the meadow is genious and I love the openness of the the little cottage that has everything! And the decor and styling is so cozy and relaxing! I can’t wait to hear and see about building the house by the water.
Amy
You have seen it in every phase here! It has been quite the transformation! And of course I am still working on the landscaping… Can’t wait for your visit this summer!
I love your house and the view is spectacular. What an amazing journey. I wish I could move to Maine today.
Hi Charlotte! As I said in my post, the view was love at first sight. And it still takes my breath away every day!
I’m loving this series! I enjoy all before and after’s and dissecting a floor plan! Looking forward to seeing yours and hearing how you chose it! I am planning the house we need for the next stage of our family: three spouses, empty nesters, grandkids, hosting family vacations.
I have never been exposed to or particularly interested in Maine so I also am enjoying learning about it from your perspective! I’m a lover of sunshine so that drives my favorite locations though I’m a midwesterner and probably always will be! There’s no place like home!
Grass is always greener on the other side. You don’t know what you have till it’s gone. Ha!Ha!
I truly enjoy your writing, style, and perspective!
Hi Regina! I am glad that you are learning about Maine life from my blog! It is a state with a very strong identity! We actually do have a lot of sunny days here. Spring tends to be the most rainy/gray/foggy. We of course had to balance budget and needs/wants for the house here. I will be talking about all that next week!
What a great adventure & story – looking forward to learning more about the main house!
Hi Janet! It has been quite a journey! The hard part is coming in Part II. Overseeing the construction of the house here and moving out of our previous home were true labors of love! See you next week!
What a great story. Coastal Maine tugs at my heart strings as well. Thank you for sharing Part I of your Maine home. Can’t wait for Part II.
Hi Suzie! Maine has a way of latching onto your heart, right?? Thanks for reading my post!
Love this story Molly and look forward to Part 2. Follow your dreams and they become a reality as I have always said.
I especially love this story as I am a Mainer and always wanted to have a place here after living in Mass. most of my life.
It so happened that we were renovating our kitchen and had to get our ‘springers’ out of the house so the floors could be done, so I took the dogs to my Aunts house for a few days….while walking down to the beach I spotted a ‘For Sale’ sign on a cottage that I was familiar with and within minutes I spoke with the realtor saw the place called my husband and told him he was in trouble as I found our ‘retirement home’! He drove down the next day and we signed a P&S that day…19 years later and we are still here. Love my Maine home.
Hi Joyce! Follow and work hard for your dreams, and they will come true! I love that story about your Maine home and of course also that you have Springers! You know how I love Maddie and Cisco, even though Maddie rolled in something super stinky today. I gave her a good wash, but she still smells…. Thanks for saying hi!
So many special memories in that little cottage — I’ll always remember it so fondly and as my first real introduction to Maine!
It was a sweet little cottage, for sure! It was my real introduction to Maine life too!
Molly, I am a Maine lover too! I had high hopes that I could convince my husband to move to Maine or Scotland when he retired, he said not to both because of the weather in winter. We are in NC and love it, instead we visit Maine as often as we can.
I love reading about your renovation/house and property. Looking forward to the next installment.
Thank you Elizabeth! I complain about the winters a lot less than I complain about the springs, haha! Thanks for reading my post and taking the time to say hello!
GREAT story ! and You can tell You truly LOVE Maine and I’m so Happy for You. Being from Maine and now living out of state is hard but like My Mom and Grandmother said You will always come back. TRUE I still have property in Round Pond.
I will return that’s what us Mainers do. Also You are so much Fun to follow!
Sandy
Hi Sandy! I do love it here so much! I know I will never be considered a true “Mainer”, but I am one in heart! Thank you so much for following along with me!
Good morning Molly, love this series and I didn’t realize you lived in the cottage for a short while, loved seeing those photos. I felt the same way about Vermont, spending weekends there for years and then finally getting to call it home. Have a great Sunday, Ann
Yes, we enjoyed the original cottage for two summers! I was actually sad when it I said goodbye to it. It was certainly nothing fancy, but it was my first home in Maine! Hope you enjoyed your rosé event!
Your house IG is my favourite…I just retired and we have been renovating our seaside cottage in Cavendish, Prince Edward Island. Your home inspires me and love seeing your two puppies enjoying life in your coastal haven. Thank you for sharing!
Hi Karen! You are too kind! You live in a beautiful spot too! Thank you so much for joining me here! Maddie and Cisco say hi!
Molly – amazing and so rewarding. I loved reading about all this. We have a home on the Chesapeake Bay that my parents renovated in the 80’s and needs more work now. We are doing it little by little, on the weekends – so much work. But we are only 1 1/2 hours away.
Your home is really great! Nice work!
Thank you, Gray! Good for you for doing the work yourself! I could never do that!
Just gorgeous Molly…what a transformation! Love everything you have done!
Thank you, Tracey! It has been quite the journey!
Love your story! We have so much in common. We just sold our Maryland house last year and closed on the Maine property last February. We are both defense contractors and work remote. (Thanks Covid!) We too wanted oceanfront but found the prices to be astronomical when looking this past year. So we went further north and chose lakefront as we have oceanfront in North Carolina. It’s been challenging to get the services we are so accustomed to being so remote, but it’s worth it for the natural beauty and acreage up here. I miss getting my nails done and having a Target nearby, but when I walk on our dock, those things become unimportant. Thanks for sharing your journey!
Wow, we sure do have a lot in common! I worked for a DOD affiliated agency for my entire career! Where were you in Maryland? We were in Bethesda. We were lucky that we bought our property and did the construction when we did. We couldn’t afford any of it now! And yes, I miss Target. I got a pedicure when I was visiting my daughter in DC and I literally hadn’t had it done in two years, haha! But the pace of life and beauty here are worth it!
What a great story! So glad I followed the link from your IG account. We have a small cottage in the Central Virginia wine country, a great get-away, but not nearly as challenging as your story has been! Your views are magnificent.
Hi Ron! I am glad you followed my link too! Ah, I bet your cottage in Virginia is a fabulous getaway! We looked at places closer to DC a couple times, but ultimately I wanted to get back to New England!
Wow, everything you redid looks amazing!
Thank you, Nori! I hope you will enjoy this week’s post on the main home too!
Oh my goodness, Molly, I’m really enjoying this series! I love seeing the old photos and that view. I’ve never seen an ant nest before! Oh and I want to stay in your sweet guest house!
Hi Danielle! Thank you for reading my post! Let me know if you are ever in the Midcoast area! If the guest cottage is unoccupied, you would be welcome to stay!